Get My Ex Back From His Girlfriend

get my ex back from his girlfriend

Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to talk to his ex-girlfriend who wants to return with him?

My boyfriend was with his ex-girlfriend for almost five years. He broke about a year ago and have been dating. They met a month ago and she wanted return to him. I know they have been text messaging back and forth from him. It makes me uncomfortable. I know they are talking about because his phone went and it was a text message from her (this has happened more than once.) He tells me he loves me and would she be with her coming back to it, but I can not hate the fact that talk. I do not talk to my ex-boyfriends. Am I wrong here? If not, how I can put it without sounding crazy or control? Thanks and I will give the best answer.

No, it is not appropriate ... And no, not bad. If this girl wants to be your friend or get back together, I can see why this is worrying. Five years is a long time, and is actually between 20 and 25 percent of your lifetime (5 / 21 = 23.8%). This is a great thing. It is likely that I can hardly remember life without this girl. He has had a year to recover and find out what is looking ... As for the situation ... Just explain how you feel. Tell him you do not talk to her ex-boyfriends. And I ask to see things from their point of view. That's what I always do in complicated situations: I try to see the situation from the perspective of another person. Ask if your ex was trying to get back with you, if not mind to meet and chat up. The key here is to stay calm and sit down to discuss it. The problems arise when people are angry and began accusing without justification. Good luck. Everything will be fine, I assure you.